By Jane Tanfei|Jun 19 2014 | Thoughts
There is a topic that’s been in my heart and flitting through my head for a few months now: pride. I’ve been watching people, looking for how pride is positioned in their lives. I’ve become aware of the reality that most human behavior patterns, actions, reactions and self-identity are based in pride. By pride, I […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Jun 12 2014 | Thoughts
I get upset when I see, read, or hear objectification of humans. I know that this comes from being treated as an object in my youth, knowing I was worth nothing more than what my body could provide for other people’s pleasure. I feel an immense sadness and some heartache when I encounter anything that has to […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Mar 03 2014 | Psychology, Thoughts
Over the past week, I’ve had two more encounters to practice my “walk away from rude people” skills with. It is not easy. I’m trying to stick by the idea: they start insults, I walk away. On the second encounter (multiple people, typical mob mentality), I was talking to one person when a second person […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Jan 01 2014 | Rant
Ugh. I am annoyed, disgusted, and just plain irritable all around. People annoy, disgust, and irritate me. Not purposefully, mind you. It’s not like it matters what they do or whether I’m irritated. They obviously don’t care that their behavior is disgusting to me. Who am I? Nobody. Who are they? Nobody. Who do they […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Oct 30 2013 | Thoughts
I’m not sure what I want to write yet – I have a half-formed idea in my brain that is centered around the jumble of emotions I’m feeling. Usually, when I feel like this, I just become subdued and try to withdraw within myself so I don’t lash out at other people. At these times, […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Apr 29 2013 | Curiousity, Metaphysical Discussion, Thoughts
I have a real knack for unintentionally pissing people off. In the past few days, I’ve been called “rude”, “a piece of shit”, “fucked up” and “obnoxious” simply because I had the audacity to speak up about a fellow human’s well-being. My intent was to make sure someone was being properly cared for, based on […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Mar 23 2013 | Metaphysical Discussion, Thoughts
– We are all the same.
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