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06
Mar

The Send-off…

By Jane Tanfei|Mar 06 2014 | Psychology, Thoughts

I am flip-flopping – still – on if I want to share this information. It is painful to me, but I need to get it outside of myself because I need to reflect upon it from an external viewpoint. For the past couple of weeks, I’ve tried to solve a problem in my mind – how […]

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10
Feb

Forming a Philosophy…

By Jane Tanfei|Feb 10 2014 | Curiousity, Metaphysical Discussion, Thoughts

There is a set of ideas floating around my head – a qualitative and definitive understanding relative to my current emotions and thoughts and evoked by recent events in my life. The main tenets of this soon-to-be formulated understanding of my world: 1) Fear is irrelevant. 2) Money is irrelevant. 3) Intuition is key. 4) […]

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20
Jan

On Lifestyle Superiority…

By Jane Tanfei|Jan 20 2014 | Thoughts, Writings

So, this morning I am thinking about humans and our need to judge others by our own fickle standards. I was already kind of thinking about this as I did my morning trudge; I’d been considering the frustration I feel at the automatic mental comparisons I do every day. Not because I want to, but […]

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11
Nov

Facebook Figurings…

By Jane Tanfei|Nov 11 2013 | Thoughts

Some stuff I wrote out on my FB page, want to save it here for reference… Looking through various “feeds”, I note that my gut response to most popular items is apathy. I read through 100 or so responses to see if anyone can point out what actually makes the initial post so great… I […]

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19
Sep

Thankful Thursday – Sept 19, 2013

By Jane Tanfei|Sep 19 2013 | Dreams, Psychology, Thoughts

I haven’t done a Thankful Thursday post in a long time, but felt like I should write one today. As you probably don’t know, I keep a handwritten journal – in addition to this blog – because I really do have a lot in my head that comes out at weird times. So, yesterday, I […]

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10
Sep

On Talking Heads…

By Jane Tanfei|Sep 10 2013 | Psychology, Thoughts

I’ve realized that I say, “what people tell me” a lot. I say this because that’s how I perceive other people’s words – they are talking at me. I receive their words, but I do not absorb them into myself. When I refer to “what people tell me”, it’s because I’m specifically speaking about an […]

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13
Jul

On Independence…

By Jane Tanfei|Jul 13 2013 | Metaphysical Discussion, Thoughts

Independence: freedom from the control, influence, support, aid, or the like, of others. Do I have this? Financially, I’ve been largely independent since age 17 (well, somewhat so since age 15, but still lived at home). I think the last time I borrowed money was when I was 23, a full-time student with two children, […]

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01
Jul

Toughly Tender…

By Jane Tanfei|Jul 01 2013 | Psychology, Star Trek, Thoughts

I feel love. It cuts me very deeply and leaves me open and raw and feeling bereaved, yet also feeling soft and warm and comforted because that love is beautiful even as it is painful. Additionally, that love causes distress because I fluctuate between feeling tough and feeling tender. I do not allow myself vulnerability, […]

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26
Jun

Midweek Motivation…

By Jane Tanfei|Jun 26 2013 | Humor, Thoughts

I am full of energy and pep and spunk and grit and motivation. I’ve got a goofy grin on my face and I’m having a hard time sitting still. I’m feeling great, despite the fact that my head was too full of inspirations to sleep much last night. I’m excited to be alive! I’m excited […]

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25
Jun

Entering Excitement…

By Jane Tanfei|Jun 25 2013 | Humor, Music, Shameless Self-Promotion, Thoughts

This evening, I will perform live for a large group of strangers for the first time in 11 years. Strangely, I feel absolutely no nervousness. In the past, even last year while recording my album, I felt nervous and anxious about performing music. Today, I just feel happy and exuberant. I feel like today is […]

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