By Jane Tanfei|Jun 20 2013 | Metaphysical Discussion, Psychology, Thankful Thursday, Thoughts
I wrote the first post on this blog (Hello World…) one year and one day ago. Over the past 366 days, I’ve written a lot about myself and my struggles. My goal in starting this blog was to break through the deeply seated Silence that has blanketed my life. I feel like I have achieved my goal, […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Apr 30 2013 | Curiousity, Metaphysical Discussion, Thoughts, Writings
Today, I can feel myself changing. There are certain things that I have thought about today that do not bother me as much as they would have bothered me even a few weeks ago. This morning, I thought, “Maybe I’ve finally grown up.” But, I don’t even know what “grown up” means… I will never […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Apr 26 2013 | Thoughts
One thing I have always been ashamed of is my appearance. I happen to have medium brown skin, dark curly hair, and brown eyes. I’ve been called “dog ugly” as many times as I’ve been called “beautiful”, so I doubt I’m either – probably just a plain Jane. It doesn’t really matter either way. What […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Apr 25 2013 | Curiousity, Rant, Thoughts
I’ve thought a lot about shame, and the things that we do to avoid exposing our shame to the world. We lie, we trick, we cheat, we hurt others, we hate, we steal, we murder, we suicide to hide our shame. As if these bad things we do to hide our shame can ever overshadow […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Sep 18 2012 | Metaphysical Discussion, Thoughts, Writings
So, yesterday, I was thinking about how difficult it is at times to accept one’s current life – mistakes and bad experiences included. I was looking critically at the various aspects of my life which I feel are out of whack, then the aspects of my life which I feel are great. I started to […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Aug 08 2012 | Metaphysical Discussion, Rant, Thoughts
The thing that is bothering me today is the sexualization of females. It is disheartening, disturbing, and disgusting to me. I look at female musicians and a large majority of them choose to post images of themselves scantily-clad, in provocative and suggestive poses, with “come hither” looks on their faces. It’s so frustrating. I understand […]
Continue Reading →By Jane Tanfei|Jun 25 2012 | Curiousity, Metaphysical Discussion, Thoughts
Today started out well – I woke up on time, the weather outside is exactly how I like it, I am not feeling ill, and I felt content. I worked out, pushed myself and beat my previous record on the treadmill. I smiled and greeted many people, who smiled and greeted me back. I headed […]
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